Wednesday 5 December 2012

The Awkward Moment

.........when someone tries to malign you but you can't defend.
.........when you wanted to complain to A about B, and you sent the message to B instead of A.

Luckily, B is not very profound in English, and Singlish.
Thank god.

Thursday 29 November 2012

Frustration @ Work

I can understand that in life, we bound to have difficulties. And we will get disturbed easily, emotionally. It's the matter of how we learn to control, to release stress and to enjoy our lifes when we change our perspective towards some things.

Recently, I've been rather frustrated with work. Colleagues. To be exact.

We have this new system at customer's site, so they can place order through that system, and links up to our system (SAP), and supposingly it was automated. This 'linking up' process has took us some time to clear up old debts and outstanding stuff.

Now, this colleague of mine, whom has gone through the training is asking ME (who didn't get trained), things of the system.

HOW WOULD I KNOW??!!
And the funny thing is, she wanted me to check with my colleague which has worked here for more than 10 years, saying that "he should have more experience".

HELLO??
This is a new system at your customer's site, and we weren't trained !!!

Wednesday 28 November 2012

The Red Petals

Met up with Michelle from The Red Petals last evening, and we tied down many things..

Now, the decos for Solemnization table, Reception table, Snack bar, the Aisle, the Stairs, all will be nicely decorated! On top of that, Baby and I will be visiting Ikea and Daiso to shop for candles and some floral pieces, nice candle holders and so on. *love*

To me, it's not about the title "getting married" that excites me. Its more on the "moving on together" and doing all these things together, shopping for things, deciding and discussing about the whole event together, that makes me feel so loved. Even though we have different perception, but at the end of the day, we discuss and find a way out together!

GETTING MARRIED, is just a simplified term for people around us, to acknowledge that we are gonna stick together for the rest of our lives. But to us, it meant something more than that...

This marriage is so special to us. We both believe that its fate that brought us together, .... including the photo taking sessions which initially I plan to bring Niki and Wimpy for the photoshoot, became part of our Wedding Shoot, the super deal wedding photos we snap, the location of our wedding, the photobook, our holiday, shopping for gowns and suits, accessories and footwear, wedding needs and many many more... :) And everything we do, we do it together!

Really, I feel so loved. :)

Tuesday 27 November 2012

Blogger's Space Limit

I'll stop blogging for a while until I find a solution to blogger's limited space for photos. They are trying to make me PAY for extra 'space' for uploading photos. So, its either I jump blog and ditch this, or I pay for it.

SIGH!!

Friday 23 November 2012

Feeling Restless

I've been feeling restless this two days..
So restless that I don't know what I'm doing sometimes..
Sigh ..

S.H.E - 心还是热的

曲:JerryC 詞:姚若龍

浪漫地相信过 委屈地怀疑过
我面对 自我被爱情跋扈掠夺
不懂得 放手

任性地辜负过 崩溃地被遗弃过
尝到了 香甜和酸涩的後果
学会要 抉择

心还是热的 也就不怕了
带泪的故事 再回忆笑了
我会骄傲地去记得 曾经勇敢地冲动
留下灿烂的 时刻

眺望总是迷惑 回首才终於看懂
得到的 都比失去的还贵重
已经算 圆梦

心还是热的 眼睛更透澈
曲折的历史 完整了自我
我要为信仰去承诺 仍然勇敢而执着
绝不世故的 沉默

旧的伤痕剥落 新的生命跳动
爱是不停开的 花朵
被风乾的脆弱 才能编成绳索
攀上成熟

心还是热的 眼睛更透澈
曲折的历史 完整了自我
我要为信仰去承诺 仍然勇敢而执着
绝不是故的 沉默

心还是热的 不让谁击落
胸口没有云 世界就晴空

Tuesday 20 November 2012

Dinner!

I am so fortunate <3
Dinner by future Mother-in law ! <3

Baked with Love


Click to visit their website!
They got awesome cookies!!!


You be the judge!



I still can't decide which products to put on my snack bar. I wanted everything to go onto that table but I'm afraid its too small.... *BAHHHHHHHHH* Well, I shall give some careful consideration. Hmmm. :)

Monday 19 November 2012

Shiberty & Grinaffair

As I mentioned previously, Shan has been helping me with the snack bar. She have suggested a few places that I can get those stuff I need. She really have a lot of friends. ha ha ha

Check this out!!
Alrights, everyone loves pretty things. As I'm looking at these photos, I can't bear to whine to Vinc that I want all these in my wedding settings! And the poor him gotta calm me down and make me think of my theme. T.T

LOVE LOVE!!

LOVE LOVE LOVE!!
Goshnesss........

Alrights, I know I can't stuff everything full on the snack bar, so I will consider wisely. Thanks Shan again <3

Another site, Grinaffair
They specialise in Cake in a Jar, and they looks beautiful too!!!


By looking at these cakes, it makes me drool!
I'm so spoilt for choices!!

Saturday 17 November 2012

When O'Pals Meet

Not mine, but Vinc's.
- and I tagged along.

It's a nice feeling of being 'reconized' by his friends, smiling with warm friendly handshakes. They are all nice people who grew up with Vinc. And when he bring me out to meet his important friends, I feel more attached to him. I can't really describe that kind of feeling, it feels like I'm someone important to him and he is proud bringing me around :)

(@ The Central)

It was a busy Saturday for us; Alumni Band in the morning, then Lunch, then go home to nap abit since its raining, then to Pasir Ris for Vinc's friend -Kelvin's baby full month celebration, then to Lilys @ Clarke Quay for Vinc's gathering (Huifen, Kim, Becca, Thomas, Shuyuan).

I like the sound system at Lilys, that is when they bother to turn the volume up a lil'.

I like Vinc's friend (Kelvin)'s open concept design for their kitchen, and their carpentary add ons in their house. It looks really comfy and nice :D

I like the band practice and attendance has an upward trend, the whole band starting to settle down for tougher pieces.

I decided to contribute more into the organising to help Guoqiang coz, he was doing everything alone, literally. I do not know what happen to the 'committee' but seems like GQ is having some difficulty.

So, i'm gonna be super busy when the dates gets nearer..... Two huge event going on, running in my life now. <3 No, I've got no time to feel stress now :D

Friday 16 November 2012

Wedding Bands

Collected <3
One step at a time, we are 77 days to our Wedding!

Shan has been helping me a lot with my snack bar.
Will post more photos of it soon!!

*MUACKS* to her <3

The Red Petals (Florist)

Getting prepared for the venue decos, am packed with stuff in my head. The Red Petal is one of the appointed florist for Amara, in fact they have two. But just that the other florist did not pick up my call, nor did reply my emails yet.

So we shall go ahead with what we have for now. :)
Some decos they have done before:


I like this!!!





I even email Michelle, our person in-charge the sample photo I saw online:
Hehe... Yes, I'm going for Yellow and brown color theme. And flowers will be Sunflower. Michelle actually recommended Gerberas instead of Sunflowers, which are smaller in size.
Well... will consider! :D
Coz.... got difference one!!!
Still got a long way to tie things down..
Check out their Website or Facebook

Thursday 15 November 2012

S U N F L O W E R

Gifts of radiant warmth, sunflowers are the happiest of flowers, and their meanings include loyalty and longevity. They are unique in their ability to provide energy in the form of nourishment and vibrance, an attribute which mirrors the sun and the energy provided by its heat and light

Today I finally ring up the florist and kept things going.

78 DAYS!!

As of today, I have 78 more days to my wedding.

And i'm not gonna go on a diet until the 50th day.
Our wedding bands are ready for collection.

Niki Winky

I have been trying to be a better mum ever since I came back from Shanghai. Can't get enough love from them everyday, and I felt so blissful that my other half loves them as much as I do. :)










*loves*

Tuesday 13 November 2012

Gai Gai in a Stroller!

Although they both has been snipped, but Niki still refuse to share the stroller with Wimpy. So... He have to sit at the rear seat......alone.

And Wimpy gets the driver seat!
Hah. XD



I dont know if they know that they are out of the house, but anyway, I brought them out to breath some fresh air.

Went to the pet shop and replenished their treats and Wimpy's skin spray. After constantly using the skin spray for 3 weeks, his skin is finally recovering.

Saturday 10 November 2012

Bridesmaid Dress!

I can have many many bridesmaid, but one Maid of Honour.
So, i'm looking for their dresses now! :D

Have went down to Love Potion @ Far East Plaza and saw some ideal pieces, but I need the girls to come down and try it on before deciding... Am excited!!

Yellow is my theme, Sunflower is my flower.
Visit their Facebook Page here!

Friday 9 November 2012

Knowledge Gap

The feeling when you have given your 100% in something with hardwork and effort, and yet you only produced 80% result; disappointing. And all these is due to a Knowledge Gap, which shouldnt in the first place be there.

What else can I do to make things more perfect?

Wednesday 7 November 2012

*UPDATED* TO DO LIST

November 2012
-Meet Parents
-File ROM
-Contact Solemnizer
-Collect Wedding Bands
-Send Invitation card for Printing
-Send Wedding Album for Printing
-Get ready Guest List
-Shop for Bridesmaid Dress

December 2012
-Bridesmaid Meet Up
-Order Cakes (for '过大礼')
-Collect Invitation Card
-Collect Wedding Album
-Meet up Florist
-Contact Amara for Wedding Favours

January 2013
-过大礼
-Distribute Invitation Card
-Confirm Wedding Song List
-Meet up with Amara's Wedding Coodinator
-Confirm Guest Attendance
-Draw up Guest List
-Meet up Bridesmaid to tie down details
-Order Hi-Tea snacks
-Prepare Red Packet Boxes & Guest Book


.... I hope I haven't miss out anything yet! :)

Monday 5 November 2012

The Chinese Wedding Shop

While I was wandering along Ang Mo Kio market hoping to bump into some nicce and cheap footwear and accessories, this special shop caught my attention!

THE CHINESE WEDDING SHOP
Click HERE to visit their website!
I was so attracted to everything on display and I cant stop smiling like a silly kid! I wanted so badly for baby to come quickly coz there are so many nice stuff there!!

(All photos below are abstracted from their website)
Anything needed in a chinese wedding, you name it, they have it! 

And this, the Teacup set I fancied. <3

And below some wedding favours;









AND THIS!!
Super likes*